
By Camille Mc Millan Rambharat
Three small dots.
That is all they are.
And yet those tiny bubbles that appear on our screens when someone is typing have quietly become part of the rhythm of modern life. We watch them appear, pause, disappear, and return, carrying anticipation, relief, anxiety, and expectation. They are so ordinary that we rarely stop to consider how much power they hold over our emotions.
Recently, during a back-and-forth text exchange with someone close to me, I noticed just how invested I had become in those dots. At first, the replies came quickly. Then the pauses grew longer. I watched the dots appear, stop, vanish, and reappear, as if they were teasing me. Each pause stretched my patience thinner. My mind, ever helpful, filled the silence with assumptions, imaginary conclusions, and unnecessary urgency.
And then it struck me that this feeling was familiar.
In that moment, I recognised the same tension I have felt while waiting on God. Waiting for answers to prayers. Waiting for clarity. Waiting for healing, direction, or reassurance. I caught myself reacting internally in a way that made me cringe, realising how quickly anxiety rises when responses are delayed, whether from a friend or from the Lord Himself. It was one of those honest prayers we rarely admit out loud: “Lord, give me patience, but hurry.”
What began as irritation quickly became grace.
I laughed at myself and thought, if waiting on three tiny dots can unravel me this easily, how often do I bring that same restless energy into my prayer life? How often do we treat God like a rapid-response messenger, staring at the screen of our circumstances and expecting instant replies, complete with read receipts and typing indicators?
Curious, I decided to learn the proper name for these dots that had stirred such reflection. They are called an ellipsis. In grammar, an ellipsis is a punctuation mark made up of three dots that indicate omitted words, a pause, or something left unsaid. In texting culture, it serves as a typing indicator, proof that someone is actively composing a response. Yet beyond technology, the ellipsis carries deeper meaning. It suggests that the thought is not finished. That something more is coming. That the story is still unfolding.
Perhaps that is where the lesson is.
God’s silence is not absence. The pause does not mean neglect. Like the ellipsis in a sentence, it does not signal the end; it signals continuation. It reminds us that what we see is not the whole story. What feels omitted may simply be hidden for a time. What feels unfinished may still be in progress.
The waiting, then, is not empty space. It is sacred punctuation.
God is still writing.
Faith invites us to trust not only in God’s answers but in His process. To remain faithful not only when the reply is clear, but when the dots appear and disappear and we are asked to wait. In a world that celebrates immediacy, prayer teaches us patience. In moments of silence, God often does His deepest work within us.
Waiting stretches us. It exposes our need for control. It reveals how quickly we move from trust to tension when outcomes feel uncertain. Yet Scripture gently reminds us that stillness is not inactivity; it is surrender. It is confidence that God is working even when we cannot see evidence on the screen of our circumstances.
So, the next time we find ourselves staring at those three little dots, may we remember this: waiting is not wasted time. It is sacred space. It is an invitation to trust more deeply, to loosen our grip, and to believe that God is always at work, even when the screen appears quiet.
“Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him.” — Psalm 37:7