A shepherd tends his wounded flock

Often, the image a community holds of a person depends on circumstance—history, occasion, audience, and agenda. These elements shape how we label others, rightly or wrongly.

When asked to describe someone, our answers are filtered through limited knowledge and personal experience. Rarely do we all see the same picture.

The St Michael’s Parish Men’s Movement held our Lenten retreat on April 5 at a home Down-the-Islands (DDI). The idea, suggested by our shepherd and embraced by the Executive, became a meaningful addition to our Lenten calendar.

Twelve men, ranging in age from 25 to 60+, spent almost eight hours together in prayer, reflection, and dialogue using the tools of our workshop to refocus our ministry. Our aim: to serve more intentionally, not only within the group, but also within our families and wider communities.

One of the key exercises involved reflecting on the image that affected each of us. Place the same image in front of two people and ask each—silently and without prompting—what they see. Their responses will differ. And just like that, we’re reminded that no single person can truly define another. Yet, in community, we try.

Jesus however, as the image suggests, knows each of us intimately. He remains ever-present, ready to save and comfort us in our pain, even when we turn away or drift from Him.

Together, we gently peeled back layers of hurt and gave attention to wounds that many felt safe enough to share. In that sacred space open to the movement of the Holy Spirit and guided by Fr Mikhail Woodruffe O Carm—we were able to confront our brokenness and begin the work of healing. New bonds were formed, and meaningful plans began to take shape to address the woundedness so many of us carry.

It was a timely and deeply meaningful session. The feedback we received affirmed that our time together was not only valuable but may also mark the beginning of true healing within our ministry.

Holy Mass was celebrated, with intentions raised during our morning of sharing. We remembered those absent, our families, and members who have passed. The day ended in fellowship: liming, swimming, and giving thanks.

On behalf of the Executive, Joseph Alsop expressed gratitude to Fr Mikhail and committed to continuing the work we began together that day.

Food for thought, especially considering the Gospel for the 5th Sunday in Lent: Where do you hurt? Are you in need of healing? Read Jesus’ words: “Where are they? Has no one condemned you? Neither do I condemn you…go away and don’t sin any more.” John 8:10-11. May it be the start of something lasting.

—Anthony Rawlins