A response of trust in God’s goodness

By Fr Kenwyn Sylvester

Director of Vocations

At our first annual training session for Parish Vocations Committees, someone asked a question that struck a deep chord: ‘What about those who feel called by God but say NO?’

I smiled, taking a moment to let the question settle. The answer that formed in my heart was clear—responding to God’s call requires trust.

Is Jesus calling you to be a Catholic priest or religious? Are you resisting that call? Have you outright said ‘no’?

As I shared my response, I felt moved to offer a personal experience of what it means to trust in God’s plan. I recalled the moment my spiritual director and parish priest, during my early discernment, said it was time to think about writing my resignation letter. The seminary accepted my application, and everything was falling into place for me to enter in August.

A wave of dread washed over me. The weight of those words was overwhelming. Was I really about to leave my job, my career—everything I had worked for? I had dreams, plans, and ambitions, and now I was being asked to walk a completely different path that felt unfamiliar and frightening.

But in that moment of fear, I turned to prayer. Slowly, my dread gave way to peace. I had already said ‘yes’ to God in my heart; I just needed the courage to follow through. Like our Blessed Mother, I trusted that God’s promises would be fulfilled.

On February 22, 2025, as I stood before the participants at our training session in Chaguanas, I explained that saying ‘yes’ to a vocation is a radical act of trust in God’s providence and goodness. It is choosing to believe that His plan is the very best for us—even when it feels uncertain or difficult.

Trusting in God’s goodness

Anyone who wants to follow Jesus must first realise that God’s will for their life is best for them. As author Matthew Kelly puts it, aligning ourselves with God’s dream leads to purpose, joy, and fulfilment.

St John Paul II spoke of vocation as a gift and a responsibility—a deeply personal invitation from God, rooted in His love and unique plan for each of us. It’s not something we earn but something freely given, reflecting His grace and generosity.

The call to the priesthood or religious life is exactly that—a gift. But do we trust that what God calls us to is truly for our highest good? Have you ever dared to ask Him what His dream for you is?

Trusting in God’s providence

For many who discern, the big question is: ‘Can God really provide what I need if I say yes?’ Leaving behind dreams, security, or even relationships can be daunting. We wonder if we will be left empty-handed.

But is not this the very question Peter asked Jesus in Matthew 19:27: “What about us, Lord? We have left everything to follow you.”

You are not alone if you have ever asked yourself that same question. Jesus answered Peter by promising that no-one who has left behind family, possessions, or security for His sake will go without.

Instead, they will receive a hundredfold and eternal life. He reminded Peter and us that we cannot outdo God in generosity.

Trust is at the heart of responding to God’s call. If you feel that nudge from Him but keep it locked away—overthinking, ignoring, or trying to control it—you are choosing not to trust. Without trust, ‘no’ might be the only answer you can give.

The saints, priests, and religious people of our time have dared to trust in God’s goodness and providence by taking the leap and believing He would provide, and He always has.

So, I ask you again: ‘Is Jesus calling you to be a priest or religious?’

Trust Him. Say ‘yes’. Our Blessed Mother will guide you as she did for so many before you.

Will you take the next step? If you need help navigating your next steps, email, WhatsApp, or call the Office of Vocations at vocations@catholictt.org or (868) 499-0302 or 686-3696.