Laughter in the midst of Loss

By Ceirid Sampson
Bereavement Counsellor
Belgroves Funeral Home Limited

The resilience of the human being and Its ability to find comfort in the most challenging circumstances.

This reaction to loss can be a complex and natural human response. It’s a way of coping with loss while finding light within

moments of darkness. I never said that the loss of someone is humorous, what I am saying, is that, though the topic appears to be contradictory, humour can serve as a release valve, assisting in processing emotional pain.

Laughter can bring with it a sense of normalcy amid chaos, reminding us of the importance of living each day as if it were your last. It is not uncommon for people to share funny stories about loved ones during a eulogy as a way of honouring the memory and joy that the person brought into their life and those around them.

The laughter thatI reference is not one of not acknowledging the pain of loss. but one that acknowledges grief as multifaceted, and that love, and Its connection belong In all aspects of our life.

Additionally, laughter when shared with pain brings people together in ways one may never imagine, making us aware that even in the time of darkness we are seldom alone. It encourages us to be mindful as even, in sadness, there can be moments of joy and togetherness.

Laughter during loss is an example of how resilient we can be as a people in our ability to comfort others while facing challenging circumstances.

I am certain thatI had you recollect a memory.

When was the last time you attended a funeral and had a Good Laugh?