Religious and priestly vocation as self-gift

By Fr Kenwyn Sylvester

Director of Vocations

My seminary journey has been profoundly personal, full of reflection and significant encounters. I vividly recall one conversation during my seminary years that shaped my understanding of vocation.

Someone asked why I believed God was calling me to the priesthood when I could use my gifts in other professions. They saw my talents and wondered why I would choose a path of total surrender.

Without hesitation, I responded: “God sometimes calls us to offer ourselves entirely as a gift.” That answer has remained my anchor. This vocation, though radical, is rooted in the example of Christ, who gave everything for us.

At its core, the priesthood and religious life are profound acts of self-gift. Jesus invites us to take up our cross, follow Him, and live as the Good Shepherd who lays down His life for His sheep.

This calling is not easy—it is a life of constant surrender grounded in love and service. Yet, it is also a life of profound joy, offering spiritual nourishment to God’s people.

In a world increasingly defined by individualism and materialism, the commitment to poverty, chastity, and obedience is a radiant sign of God’s Kingdom. Could God be whispering to your heart, asking you to step into something more, something eternal?

The lives of saints offer us powerful examples of this radical self-gift. St Francis of Assisi, for instance, gave up his wealth to embrace a life of simplicity and service. His joy and freedom were not in possessions but in complete trust in God.

St Clare of Assisi followed him, dedicating her life to prayer and founding the Poor Clares. Her unwavering trust in God reminds us that we can live holy lives through simplicity and surrender.

In our time, St Teresa of Kolkata embodied Christ’s compassion by serving the poorest of the poor. Her life was a testament to love in action, reminding us of the dignity of every human being. She found fulfilment not in receiving but in giving, echoing Jesus’ words: “Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me” (Mt 25:40).

Then there is St John Vianney, the Curé of Ars, who poured himself out entirely for his parish. He spent countless hours in the confessional, bringing God’s mercy to countless souls. His tireless devotion reminds us that the priesthood is a life of deep intimacy with Christ and His people.

These saints were not extraordinary because of superhuman abilities. They were ordinary people who said ‘yes’ to God in extraordinary ways. Their lives challenge us: Could we dare to embrace such self-gift? Could we trust God enough to let go of what the world offers and follow Him completely?

The contemplative life of the Carmelites also provides a unique perspective on this call. St Thérèse of Lisieux, the Little Flower, reminds us of the beauty of small acts of love done for God. Her quiet life of prayer, far from the world’s spotlight, shines brightly as a witness to the power of surrender and the centrality of God’s love. Have you ever felt a tug in your heart, a quiet voice calling you to go deeper in prayer and trust?

Religious and priestly vocations are not just about personal fulfilment–they are a gift to the world. They remind us of the goal of our lives: union with God. They are visible signs of His love, mercy, and presence on Earth.

As we reflect on these examples, ask yourself: Could God be inviting me to live a life of self-gift? Could He be calling me to trust Him more and to serve others in a way that brings His love to life?

If these questions resonate with you, reach out. The Office of Vocation is here to help you discover God’s unique call for you. You can connect with us at vocations@catholictt.org or call us at 499-0302.