In November, we need to remember…

In a recent interview on Altos, Monsignor Michael de Verteuil delved into the spiritual significance of November within the Christian calendar, focusing on themes of remembrance, forgiveness, and preparation for Advent. Central to the discussion was the concept of the Communion of Saints, a key belief in Christian theology.

Msgr de Verteuil began by explaining the doctrine of the Communion of Saints, which connects all members of the Church, both living and deceased. “The Communion of Saints includes all of God’s people—those in Heaven, in Purgatory, and those still living on Earth,” he stated.

He described this community as the body of Christ, encompassing the Church Militant (those still on Earth), the Church Penitent (those in Purgatory), and the Church Triumphant (those in Heaven). “Once baptised, we are united in this communion, sharing in the spiritual benefits of each other’s prayers and good works.”

This belief underpins the observance of three key days in early November: All Saints’ Day, All Souls’ Day, and the vigil of All Saints, commonly known as Halloween.

Msgr de Verteuil traced Halloween’s evolution from its origins as “All Hallows’ Eve,” a vigil preparing for All Saints’ Day, to its modern secular form. “It has lost its original religious significance,” he noted.

He described All Saints’ Day as a time dedicated to celebrating all saints, known and unknown, who have reached Heaven. “It is a day of great rejoicing as we honour the saints who now live in eternal communion with God,” he said.

On All Souls’ Day, the focus shifts to praying for the departed who are believed to be in Purgatory. “This is a day when we visit cemeteries, light candles, and pray for our beloved dead, assisting them in their journey to full communion with God,” he explained.

Msgr de Verteuil placed particular emphasis on the practice of novenas during November. “A novena is a nine-day series of prayers, reflecting perseverance in faith and intercession,” he detailed. This tradition is deeply rooted in Christian spirituality and is particularly significant in November, when the faithful pray for the souls of the deceased. “The novena embodies our belief in the Communion of Saints. It is a way for the living to offer spiritual assistance to those in Purgatory, while the saints in Heaven intercede for us,” he said.

The novena for the dead often includes specific prayers and reflections, focusing on God’s mercy and the hope of eternal life.

Msgr de Verteuil noted that both individuals and communities participate in novenas, which provide a structured opportunity for collective and personal prayer. “Churches and families come together during this time, reinforcing the bonds within the Communion of Saints,” he added.

Addressing the emotional challenges of remembering deceased loved ones, especially in cases of unresolved issues, Msgr de Verteuil offered compassionate advice. “Forgiveness is a journey that takes time, grace, and a willingness to let go. It cannot be forced,” he advised.

He emphasised the importance of accompanying those who are grieving or struggling with unresolved feelings. “You have to journey with people—whether as a family member, counsellor, or priest—helping them recognise God’s love and how He can bring good out of every situation,” he explained.

Msgr de Verteuil stressed the role of prayer and listening in this process, noting that healing and forgiveness come with time. “You can’t force someone to forgive by simply saying ‘God says you have to forgive.’ That approach only makes the person feel guilty. Instead, it’s about accompanying them, praying with and for them, and gently leading them to a place where they can say, ‘I forgive. I let go.’ It is a privileged place to reach, but it must be done in their time, through God’s grace,” he said.

Msgr de Verteuil ended encouraging the faithful to remain spiritually focused during the lead-up to Christmas. “Look to God, not the shops,” he urged, advocating for a deeper engagement with the spiritual preparation of Advent rather than succumbing to the commercial pressures of the holiday season.

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