Bishop Neil Scantlebury of Bridgetown has called for an end to the violence in Barbados, where the homicide rate has surged to 40 this year.
In grappling with the answer to the question of why society has changed for the worse, he is convinced that the breakdown in good family life is at the centre of the crime and violence.
“A good family is indeed vital to building a good society. The family plays a foundational role in shaping individuals who form the fabric of society. It is in the family that our spirituality, morals and ethics are formed,” Bishop Scantlebury said in a September 26 statement headlined ‘God Not Gun’.
In the statement, Bishop Scantlebury observed that in the modern world, fewer people are attending church or establishing a sound spiritual foundation. He highlighted it was in the family circle where children first learn about right and wrong.
“Parents and caregivers instilled moral values, ethics and a sense of responsibility in children and these are characteristics crucial for the development of a just and compassionate society,” the Bishop said. He reminded people who found themselves on a pathway to commit a murder that they are breaking God’s law. He encouraged would-be killers to pause, reflect and pray.
“There is always another way. It may not seem like there is another way when all the odds are stacked against you but there is,” Bishop Scantlebury said.
He spoke to reviews in all murder cases prove that forgiveness and reconciliation would have mitigated the situation and urged all to avoid hasty actions born out of vexation. These actions, he underscored, have tremendous long-term effects.
“Go to God not the gun. Before you load up that gun to take a life, get a Bible and read it, load up with the Word of God. There is always a better tomorrow. Trust in God. There is hope in God,” the Bishop said.
He said there are many stories, not enough, about persons who have walked away from a life of crime and gangs and became successful individuals with families. Those involved in serious crimes and murders must reflect on the hurt and pain that they bring not only to their victims but also the victim’s family.
“The person you kill is a son, daughter, sister, mother, brother, father and friend to others, they will forever feel the pain of your actions which took away a loved one forever. Those of you who are shooting and killing please note that your family and loved ones also become suffering victims of your actions.”
Bishop Scantlebury continued, “Your actions may result in revenge on you or a lifetime in jail. No parent wants to know their child is locked in prison. No wife or girlfriend would like prison or death to end their loving relationship. No young child wants to be without the loving care of their father. The repercussions of crime and violence are far reaching and never ending.”
The Bishop’s prayers and appeal go out to those trapped in the vortex of crime. He assured that with God, one has the power to turn their life around.
“You were blessed with life and made for a great purpose, live your life to the fullest and let others do so too with theirs. Go to God not the gun. Load up your heart with the Word of God not a gun with bullets.”